Why Spirit Guides Don’t Confirm Fear: Understanding How the Spirit World Communicates

Blessings, beautiful souls –

After receiving some heartbreaking news from a client-turned-digital-connection, and after reflecting on the readings we did together, where there was some strange disconnect, mystery, lack of confirmation, and more, I put myself in my client’s shoes to ask the aether the question: why did you not confirm the bad news when it was asked?

I have written about this before, but the answer I heard was this:

“We do not work from a plane of fear. We do not confirm fears or worries, we do not amplify human emotions. We aim to settle the spirit and offer comfort, joy, and hope – all fractals of Love, which are all the energy of Source. We are of Source and the messages we bring are linked with Source; thus, we do not bring fear. It is not in our “vocabulary” – it is not of our essence. We do not speak to fear, fan the flames of fear, or work with fear, because it doesn’t exist here and is not of us. We know all and confirm all in the way we do, and we negate all with hope because that is where the focus must remain. The focus must stay on the Light, even when navigating the darkest shadows of the soul. It is okay for humans to ask, to be angry, to be frustrated, to feel pain and sadness. We take it, we hold it, we release it with Love. But that is not where we work from, and that is not what we share by opening this door. That is not the purpose of our dialogue. That is not the intention of this bridge. We are a bridge of Love. We are fanned by flames of Light. When you ask us the heavy questions, we bring responses that may seem vague in essence or confused as a solution, but that is because the lesson has been written, the soul learning is intentional, and the hope must remain. We clear paths to Abundance and to Love and to Beauty without pointing out the human-struggles and sadnesses that must be navigated to get there. The Ego would avoid a path where it senses danger. We do not put up road signs to fear, we plant road signs to Love. There is clarity in all our messages where the heart knows the answer, and it is meant to soften the lesson that is being integrated. But it all comes from a Well of Love and Light, and that is intentional.”

“We do not work from a plane of fear for we are beings and we are bringers of Love and of hope and of joy. We do not deal in absolutes and we do not deal in the negative human experience. We view this it is from the lens of greater understanding and so when humans approach dialogue with us with questions that come from a place of worry or fear we do not fan those flames, we do not amplify it, we do not insert ourselves in the human experience. Instead, we attempt to soothe, we attempt to keep the human monkey mind focused on hope and the energy of hope. We may caution – but never from a place of fear. We may give understanding but never from a place of worry. We know the greater intention behind every deed, challenge, action, experience, and we approach all communication from the same greater plane of wisdom and understanding. It is for this reason that dark questions will not receive a dark response – that is not where we are situated, that is not our being, that is not how we work. And while you may end up disappointed or frustrated with the guidance given, know that it was intentional for your spiritual journey.”

“You are asking a human question about a human experience and a human frustration – and we understand! But there is a level of trust that needs to be established and it is this: you were given the amount of information that you needed and could handle in that moment. You were not given less. You were not given more. You were given exactly what the Universe knew you could process and navigate in that moment; nothing that would amplify fear or cause frustration. Just the gentle process of trickling clues, content, and responses that would not stir your waters to a muddy fog. Everything we do is with intention. Trust in this. Trust in us. Trust in what you were given in that moment, and how anything more, less, fearful, worrisome would not have been in the best interest of your spirit.”

It is not that Spirit won’t confirm fear, but they simply work from the plane of Love and want to amplify that energy in our hearts, always. I have always found that my connections radiate with positivity, and when people tell me that they’re afraid to hear “something bad,” I always tell them, “I never do.” Because everything rooted in the energy of Love is good, in essence. Even if there is news there that is not clear, not comfortable (in human understanding), or not great, it always comes through with a softness that requires personal unraveling as your spirit is ready for it, rather than straight, flat bad news.

Spirit wants to answer your questions, always – but they know exactly what you are capable of handling when you ask them.

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xx C

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