I am inspired, yet again, by soul fam conversation (one of the many reasons we thrive with our soul family, folks, is that they encourage you to raise your frequency, think deeply, and then share that healing with the world). This piece will be a little part two of my blog post yesterday on Unlocking Abundance Through Joy: Overcoming Trauma Bonds and Embracing Divine Alignment, but today, we will talk about the favourite word of many: money.
Money is energy and, as with anything else on this planet, whether your frequency melds with it or not is completely in your control.
We live in a world where bartering no longer exists and currency is how we exchange what we need for comfortable human existence on planet earth. So, money has come to reflect the flow of giving and receiving. What this means is that how you think about money will reflect how it comes (or goes) in your life.
A scarcity mindset is one that is rooted in fear – and we all know how detrimental fear can be to living an Abundant life. Thoughts such as, I shouldn’t waste money on this, I shouldn’t spend on this because it’s too expensive, I hate money, I regret spending that, I don’t have enough, I want more, I don’t have enough to share with you, I hope I can pay the bills this month create a barrier that signals to the Universe that you are unworthy or incapable of receiving the power that comes with monetary Abundance.
Source/The Universe is no fool. You are only capable of receiving what you are energetically Aligned with, and limiting beliefs will shift your energy out of Alignment with money. Similarly, if you hold onto money with the mindset of I will lose this, it is fleeting, I don’t deserve this, etc., Source will honor that belief system and will respond accordingly by limiting the flow to you.
Healing your relationship with money is an essential step in rectifying the flow of it.
It begins by recognizing that money is not inherently bad. Like all tools, how it is used is what makes it good or bad. Whether money inflates your ego or makes you feel as though you have greater worth or power over others, or if money just fills you with gratitude because you are able to expand more and share more is what determines bad vs. good. If you see money as a tool that allows you to live comfortably, benefits your spiritual growth, and as a means to support your purpose – and to extend that purpose into the Collective – you will flourish with money.
Second, you need to come to terms with – and be grateful for – the ebb and flow of money. It is energy, it will never be stagnant. It will come, it will go, but always remember that it will come again. Hold onto that thought and remember that when it ebbs, it’s temporary. Extend the same gratitude into the Universe, no matter which wave is on your shore (high tide or low tide), because you are holding onto the energy of trusting it will change, and knowing the Universe will provide again.
By shifting your perception from lack to gratitude, you open yourself to receive more. Trust that the Universe is infinitely Abundant, and there’s more than enough to go around! When you embrace money as an expression of Universal energy, something which is obviously not motionless – you know this, you allow it to flow to you more freely.
Here are some tips I have transforming your spiritual relationship with money:
Recognize Your Worth
A critical aspect of attracting abundance is recognizing your own worth. You deserve to be Abundant, and it’s not a limited well. Many people unknowingly push money away because they feel unworthy of financial success or fear being judged for having it. Being wealthy does not make you less spiritual; it allows you more opportunities to freely extend that spirituality to others. The Universe responds to your belief in your worthiness. When you truly believe you are deserving of financial prosperity and the freedom it can bring, you will see the flow of money change. Your worth is not measured by how much you have but by how aligned you are with your soul’s purpose.
Sometimes we unintentionally create blockages to our financial Abundance because we spread ourselves too thin and think we are incapable of handling more (ie. we feel we might bite off more than we can chew). For example, I pride myself on being a present wife, a dedicated mother, and a loving healer, but I inherently felt that adding more to my healer plate would take away from my commitment to my family; this unknowingly created a blockage to Abundance in the Universe. During my Divine Heart Healing session with Carol Righton at Akasha’s Den, she reminded me not that I can do it all, but that I Am It All. You are it all, too.
Let Go of Control
Attempting to control all aspects of money – and the movement of money – will block you from living Abundantly alongside it. When I was making quite a bit of money as an educator, every aspect of bill spending created a cloud of fear around me that I was losing it. And, so, despite making above average, I didn’t ever see that money because I continued to manifest problems where I would lose it, and my desire to control it blocked me from enjoying the abundance of it. Clinging to money out of fear creates resistance, as does constantly worrying about how or when it will arrive. The Universe knows exactly when you need money and you must trust that it will provide. Letting go of attachments to outcomes is the key to all kinds of Abundance – emotional, mental, and even financial.
Shift From “Need” to “I Flow”
Instead of approaching money from a place of need or desperation—I need more money to be happy, secure, etc.—shift your mindset to one of flow and trust. Needing something implies a lack, which immediately blocks the Abundant nature of the Universe. Instead, start seeing yourself as part of the natural flow of Abundance. Align yourself with the energy to receive the infinite resources of the Universe.
One powerful way to contribute to this shift is to completely change the way you speak about money. This means in your head to yourself, between you and family, and with you and friends. Speaking lack manifests as lack. Speaking with fear will translate into ebb instead of flow. Speak differently about this energy and it will react differently to you.
Trust What You Receive
A big problem that people face is that longing for more. The Universe will give us exactly what we need to be joyful and feel safe, and will not provide us with more than we can handle. Believe it or not, many of those influencers you see on social media flaunting their wealth are profoundly unhappy. Energy is about flow: there is an opposite and equal reaction to all movement. You will be given what you need to live comfortably and find joy, but will not receive more than you can spiritually, emotionally, and mentally handle. So when you long for more, ask yourself why and from where this comes from. You’ll usually find it’s rooted in fear – the fear of not enough, lack, or losing it. And then we are all the way back to the initial wall that prevents Abundance in the first place: a fearful scarcity mindset.
You are in a partnership with Source. Source wants you to be Abundant. And the Universe has enough to share with everyone. If you want to feel the flow of financial wealth, it’s time to shift your relationship with it. It’s just energy, in the end; so are you prepared to Align yourself with it? Are you ready for the financial Abundance that you absolutely deserve?
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xx C

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